一、无论你活成什么样子，背地里都会有人对你说三道四。不申辩不计较一笑了之，其实就是最好的蔑视。

No matter what you live like, you will be told something behind your back. It's the best scorn to laugh at it without arguing.

二、不要着急，最好的总会在最不经意的时候出现。那我们要做的就是：怀揣希望去努力，静待美好的出现。

Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to. So what we have to do is to work hard with hope and wait for the good to come.

三、做一个平静的人，做一个善良的人，做一个微笑挂在嘴边，快乐放在心上的人。心态很重要，好的心态决定好的未来！

Be a quiet person, be a kind person, be a person with a smile on his lips and a happy heart. Mentality is very important. A good mentality decides a good future!

四、好好去爱，去生活。每天的太阳都是新的，不要辜负了美好的时光。没有永恒的夜晚，没有永恒的冬天，一切都会过去，但一切也都会重来。

Love and live. Every day the sun is new. Don't let down the good times. Without an eternal night, without an eternal winter, everything will pass, but everything will come back.

五、借人之智，完善自己。学最好的别人，做最好的自己。本色不改，青春依旧，不忘初心，方得始终。

Take advantage of people's wisdom to improve oneself. Learn from the best others and be the best self. If you don't change your true character, you'll still be young, and you won't forget your first heart, you'll always have to.

六、生活总是这样，不能叫人处处都满意。但我们还要热情地活下去。人活一生，值得爱的东西很多，不要因为一个不满意，就灰心。

Life is always like this. It can't satisfy people everywhere. But we still have to live enthusiastically. There are many things worth loving in one's life. Don't be discouraged because one is unsatisfied.

七、不要害怕做错什么，即使错了，也不必懊恼，人生就是对对错错，何况有许多事，回头看来，对错已经无所谓了。

Don't be afraid to do something wrong, even if it's wrong, you don't have to be upset. Life is right or wrong, besides, there are many things. Looking back, right or wrong is indifferent.

八、做最真实最漂亮的自己，依心而行，别回头，别四顾，别管别人说什么。比不上你的，才议论你；比你强的，人家忙着赶路，根本不会多看你一眼。

Be the most authentic and beautiful self, act according to your heart, don't look back, don't look around, don't care what others say. Talk about you when you're not as good as you are; if you're better than you, people are too busy to look at you more.

九、不管前方的路有多苦，只要走的方向正确，不管多么崎岖不平，都比站在原地更接近幸福。

No matter how hard the road ahead is, as long as it is in the right direction, no matter how rough it is, it is closer to happiness than standing in the same place.

十、不要因为别人的几句话、几个表情、几个举止，而影响到自己的心情，希望你醒来的每一天，心情都充满阳光，好好生活，好好工作，才能遇见美的事。

Don't affect your mood because of a few words, expressions and manners of others. I hope that every day you wake up, your mood is full of sunshine, you can live a good life and work hard to meet beautiful things.

十一、每个人真正强大起来都要度过一段没人帮忙，没人支持的日子。所有事情都是自己一个人撑，所有情绪都是只有自己知道。但只要咬牙撑过去，一切都不一样了。

Everyone who is really strong has to spend a period of time without help or support. Everything is supported by oneself, and all emotions are known only by oneself. But as long as you grind your teeth, everything will be different.

十二、鸡汤再有理，终究是别人的总结。故事再励志，也只是别人的经历。只有自己才能改变自己，争气永远比生气聪明。

If chicken soup is reasonable, it is someone else's summary. The story of inspiration, but also other people's experience. Only oneself can change oneself, fighting for anger is always smarter than being angry.

十三、人生本来就没有相欠，别人对你付出，是因为别人喜欢，你对别人付出，是因为自己甘愿，情出自愿，事过无悔。

Life is not owed, others pay for you, because others like you, you pay for others, because they are willing, willing, regretless.

十四、别再为错过了什么而懊悔。你错过的人和事，别人才有机会遇见，别人错过了，你才有机会拥有。人人都会错过，人人都曾经错过，真正属于你的，永远不会错过。

Stop regretting what you missed. If you miss people and things, others will have the chance to meet. If others miss, you will have the chance to have. Everyone will miss it. Everyone has missed it. What really belongs to you will never be missed.

十五、与其无法言说，不如一笑而过；与其无法释怀，不如安然自若。

It's better to laugh than to be speechless; it's better to be at ease than to be unable to let go.

十六、做自己的梦，去自己想去的地方，做自己想做的人，因为生命只有一次，机会只有一回。

Dream your own dreams, go where you want to go, be the person you want to be, because there is only one life and one chance.

十七、如果你不快乐，那就出去走走，世界这么大。风景很美、机会很多、人生很短，不要蜷缩在一处阴影中。

If you are not happy, then go out and walk, the world is so big. The scenery is beautiful, there are many opportunities and life is short. Don't curl up in a shadow.

十八、勇敢不是不害怕，而是内心害怕却依然坚持去做。愿你做个勇敢的人，不畏将来，不念过往。

Courage is not to be afraid, but to persist in doing what you are afraid of. May you be a brave man, not afraid of the future, not thinking of the past.

十九、不期待突如其来的好运，只愿付出的努力终有回报，愿每个认真努力的现在，会有一个水到渠成的未来。

Do not expect sudden good luck, only willing to pay the efforts will eventually pay off, I hope that every serious efforts now, there will be a successful future.

二十、遥不可及的并非是十年之后，而是今天之前。触手可及的就是明天，愿一觉醒来，又是全新的自己。

Not ten years later, but before today. Tomorrow is within reach. I hope to wake up and be a brand new self.